Archive for November, 2008

Ask Mr. Dad: Violent video games

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

By McClatchy Newspapers

Dear Mr. Dad: My son loves video games and spends a ton of time playing on them. Some are sports games, but others are fairly violent war-related games. I’ve heard the warnings about violent games breeding violent behavior, and I’m worried. Should I be?

A: I certainly understand why you’re worried. Every time a new game hits the shelves, alarm bells start ringing all over the country. It sometimes seems that the entire city of Washington, DC is filled with politicians or pundits who have tried to connect video games to real-world violence. It’s a sure-fire way to gain political points and a reputation for moral crusading. But as with most crusades, the reality is more complex.

Interestingly, hysteria over new entertainments has a much longer than you’d probably guess. Plato is on record 2,500 years ago complaining about the addition of a sixth hole to the five-hole flute. The resulting musical scale would cause a disruption in the rules of music, he said, which in turn would cause children to disregard ALL rules and laws. He assured his readers and anyone else who would listen that the result would be nothing less than destroying Western civilization in its crib.

Civilization somehow survived the six-hole flute, dime novels, the nickelodeon, Elvis, “talkies,” heavy metal music, and any number of other entertainments, all of which were feared as the moral destroyers of their times. The same is now true for video games.

The truth is that it’s pretty hard to establish a solid link between video games and the tendency to engage in violence in the real world. Many of the studies on this topic are deeply flawed. But one recent study by Lawrence Kutner and Cheryl Olson, the husband-wife team who founded the Harvard Medical School Center for Mental Health and Media, is well-designed, compelling, and above all, reassuring.

Kutner and Olson studied 1,300 middle-school video gamers in Pennsylvania and South Carolina. Unlike many other researchers, they studied children in their real-world settings and family context. And they discovered that the link between violence in video games and violent or antisocial behaviors is blown way out of proportion. What’s more, they found that many children can and do use video games — even those with some level of violence — to reinforce certain social skills, release stress, and relax. Bottom line? There’s no need to panic. If you’re interested in exploring this further, Kutner and Olson’s book, “Grand Theft Childhood,” is a great read. Other authors, including James Paul Gee and Marc Prensky do a great job of exploring the many benefits kids get from playing video games.

For example, a couple of years ago, James Rosser, the doctor in charge of laproscopic surgery training at a major teaching hospital in New York, found that doctors who had played videogames earlier in their lives made up to 40 percent fewer mistakes in surgery!

Rosser now has his doctors warm up before surgery by playing video games for half an hour.

The real problem with video games comes up when they start monopolizing a child’s time. The solution? Create and enforce game-playing rules in your household. Keep screen time within reasonable limits and watch more for obsessive or antisocial behaviors in your child than in the games. If you don’t see any, relax a little and let him enjoy the downtime and enjoyment that reasonable video gaming provides.

If you do notice any worrisome behavior, don’t be too quick to blame the video games. Talk to your pediatrician or school counselor to see what other issues might be in play.

Kids’ snow boots under $50

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

By McClatchy Newspapers

CHICAGO — Snow boots may be the one wardrobe necessity that children don’t fight wearing. Who doesn’t feel a bit mightier after stepping into them?

And some are as cozy as a blankie.

But let’s get one thing straight: Most Uggs and knockoffs are not snow boots (and have never pretended they were). Moisture can seep through the suede.

What stands up to snow and crackle-top puddles encountered by the pre-K-through-8 set, for $50 or less? Kamik, which boasts the No. 1 selling kids’ winter boot in North America (the Rocket, $45-$54 at zappos.com), and Sorel are among the best sellers at zappos.com, says Andy Hsieh, Zappos’ director of chil-dren’s merchandising.

“Stride Rite, Hush Puppies and Skechers make some good, very affordable boots too,” he said.

“Right now more than ever, the majority of parents that shop our site feel price is important. Parents are always willing to spend a little bit more for their children, so quality is still in there, but they don’t want to spend $100.”

Function trumps fashion. Even so, parents should make sure their children like the boots, says Catherine Cook, marketing director for the Montreal-based Kamik. “If they refuse to wear it, the boot will not get worn,” she says.

Perhaps to the dismay of young stompers, many brands are lightening up their boots. Kamik introduced a line called the Synergy-Light collection, boasting that it’s 35 percent lighter than the average kids’ winter boot. (Prices are around $65.) Indeed, Target has a perfectly cute toddler snow boot under its Circo brand for $14.99, but one mom I spied on at Target complained to her husband that it felt too heavy for when she has to carry their child.

Cook cites a few other features to look for in any boot.

Fit: Toes should be wiggleable. A too-tight boot restricts circulation, causing feet to freeze faster.

Rugged outsole: For grip on snow and ice patches.

Protection at the top: A draw-string or other closure at the top prevents snow and slush from sneaking in.

Lining: A key to seal out moisture.

Proper temperature rating: A boot that is rated to minus 100 degrees might be a bit much for a two-block trek to the public library. Too much warmth can cause your child’s foot to overheat and sweat. Once the child stops moving, the perspiration cools and the chill sets in.

HIKER HYBRID: A hybrid between hiking boot and snow boot, L.L. Bean’s new Wildcat Boots are made of waterproof suede and Cordura nylon with a waterproof membrane for extra protection. In boys and girls colors, $49.50 at L.L. Bean.

TODDLER SNOW BOOTS: The cheapest waterproof ones we found: Circo Nadina and Nectar boots, $14.99 at Target. Others: The new Lands’ End Character Snow Flurry Boots, $29.50 at landsend.com. Kamik Kid’s Frosty for $34 at zappos.com. L.L. Bean’s Snow Tread Boots for $34.50 at L.L. Bean. Stride Rite’s Cold Front II, $34 at zappos.com.

FOR UGG LOVERS: If your little girl loves Uggs but is young and rational enough to accept substitutes, L.L. Bean’s faux shearling boots are less expensive and more weather-worthy than some variations. A water-proof suede upper is reinforced by a water-proof membrane. $49.50 at llbean.com and L.L.

Try L.L. Bean stores first. (Warning: They’re popular online; some sizes were sold out on our last check.)

Season’s greetings from the real world

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Nothing like starting the new year off with an inferiority complex.

That’s all I can think as I wade through the holiday brag letters I get from family and friends. 

Who would’ve guessed the kid next door from our old neighborhood, the one who used to pee through the fence into our yard, would go on to win a Nobel Prize? And I didn’t know they even gave one out for Lego building. 

Or that my cousin’s kid, who ate black olives till he barfed at our last family reunion, graduated at the top of his class, is an Eagle scout and has never had a pimple?

Don’t get me wrong. I love hearing from family and friends, but I want the truth. I want to know how they’re really doing. I don’t want to say I want dirt … but I want dirt, or at least to know my family’s not the only with its struggles. This is the holiday letter I long to get:

“Dear friend/family member/stranger who showed up on our Christmas card list, 

“It’s been a hectic year for our whole family, and I hope this festive season finds you employed, solvent or at least well-represented by a bankruptcy attorney.

“The wife and I marked our 17th year of wedded bliss (and our 20th year of actual marriage) in the spring with a second honeymoon to Terre Haute, where we ate frozen burritos at the convenience story where we first met when she backed her Chevy Nova into my Gremlin while I was gassing up (I refer to the car, not my burrito intake). 

“Our children, Beth, now 16, and Seth, 10 but acting more like 4 some days, are in the middle of the pack at school. ‘You can’t spell “success” without a couple of C’s,’ I tell them at grade-card time. 

“Outside school, the kids watched a lot of TV in the last year, ate a bunch of junk food and hid in their rooms pretending to do homework. Seth’s soccer team lost every game this year, but it wasn’t his fault since he mostly sat on the bench. Beth, who as you know has been a drama queen since birth, tried out for her first theatrical production. She’s understudy to the backup lighting coordinator. Despite the glamour of the role, thankfully she’s remained well grounded. As you should when working with electricity. 

“The big event of the year was our much anticipated summer vacation, two weeks at a friend’s lake house. I confess I didn’t realize that central Minnesota had a monsoon season, but all the indoor time minimized our exposure to what locals called the worst mosquito infestation in decades. And all the moisture really kept down the damage when Seth’s stash of fireworks went off unexpectedly while he was playing with matches. On the positive side, the volunteer firefighters said they could use the work. So vacation was a blast, literally if not figuratively.

 

“After a year of loving, learning and growth (thank goodness for those elastic-waist Dockers), our family wishes you and yours all the best this holiday season.

“Love,

All of us”

Now there’s a letter I’d read all the way to the end. 

My life’s great. I have a beautiful wife and four energetic, intelligent kids whose laughter is the most wonderful sound in the world. I’m proud of my family, warts and all. I can’t imagine a parent feeling any other way. So I don’t understand this need to edit and embellish.

I mean isn’t it enough that my 4-year-old twins composed their first opera, my 7-year-old daughter was accepted to medical school early and my 10-year-old son developed a workable Middle East peace plan … 

(Dave Bundy is editorial director for the Suburban Journals of Greater St. Louis. Reach him at dbundy@yourjournal.com or 314-744-5772.)

In hard times, nostalgic toys strike a chord

Monday, November 24th, 2008

By the Associated Press

NEW YORK (AP) _ Counting dollars this holiday season, Tom De Santes wants to avoid buying high-priced techno gadgets as gifts for his two sons.

Instead, he is going to buy the boys, ages 6 and 7, a classic from his own childhood: Lincoln Logs.

“I loved them as a kid and used to build huge log cabins,” remembers De Santes, 38, who lives outside Boston in Scituate, Mass., and is a marketing director for an education software company. With Lincoln Logs, “I like that my boys and I can create something together.”

Without a “must-have” toy fad this holiday season, and with parents facing a deteriorating economy, tried-and-true toys are being embraced by parents and toy makers alike — what one analyst calls a “back to the toy box” approach.

“‘Retro’ or ‘nostalgia’ toys can be viewed as the ‘comfort food’ of the toy industry and I do think folks naturally gravitate to what made them happy when they were young, or what is familiar to them,” said Anita Frazier, a toy analyst at NPD Group, a market research firm.

Ken Moe, general manager of Backtobasics.com, a Web site owned by Scholastic Corp. that offers classic toys like “Rock ‘Em, Sock ‘Em Robots,” Slinky and Colorforms, said sales so far this season indicate a rising interest in old favorites.

Though most sales will occur over the next few weeks, Moe said Junior TinkerToys, Lincoln Logs and toy instruments have been among the big sellers in the past few months.

“It’s instinctive in tough times to reach back to a happier, simpler time,” he said. “Parents remember how much they loved those toys, and want that same happiness for their children.”

Lauren Horsley, who has 5- and 1-year old boys and a 3-year-old girl, plans to buy TinkerToys, a Cabbage Patch Kid doll and classic board games Sorry! and Hungry Hungry Hippos this holiday season. The 29-year-old from Salt Lake City said she finds value in the toys’ quality and universal appeal.

“We just bought our first house this fall, and with the economy so unstable we need to be as conservative as possible to ensure that we pay our bills,” she said. “A lot of pricey, faddish toys aren’t going to do our children much good if we don’t keep a roof over their heads.”

Parents aren’t the only ones looking again at classic toys. Toy makers are also turning to the old standbys as they face not only weakening toy sales, but also steep prices for commodities like resin used to make many toys and tough competition from electronic gadgets.

Holiday toy sales are often spurred by hit toys, with popularity driving shortages, creating more demand — as with the “Tickle Me Elmo” craze of 1996 and the Nintendo Wii, which has run into shortages since it was introduced in 2006.

This year, however, “not much is selling at all,” says BMO Capital Markets analyst Gerrick Johnson. While he believes shopping will pick up as the holidays get closer, he expects total sales to be down about 2 percent this year. Frazier expects toy sales this year — about half of which come in the fourth quarter — to be about flat this year at $22 billion.

Classic toys could fill the gap left by a lack of a “must have” toy, as toy makers stick to past hits and avoid taking risks, what Needham & Co. analyst Sean McGowan calls going “back to the toy box.”

“Partly, its because they know ‘this thing works,’” he says.

Hasbro Inc., for example, has found success revitalizing names such as the 40-year-old Nerf brand and Transformers, which first hit the U.S. in the early ’80s and are selling well again after last year’s “Transformers” movie.

The company also debuted revamped versions of classic board games like Clue, Operation and Monopoly this year.

“One of our core tenets is to reinvent and reimagine a lot of our core brands,” says John Frascotti, Hasbro’s global chief of marketing, who is 47. “There’s an emotional resonance that comes from the quality of the experience people in my or our generation had with the toys, and recognition that the same experience can now shared with entire family and children.”

Hasbro plans to continue to update old brands and has a G.I. Joe revival — including toys related to a new live-action movie — set for 2009.

Jakks Pacific Inc. has brought back several classic brands this year, including a 25th-anniversary Cabbage Patch Kid doll that is the replica of the original version and a new Smurfs plush toy and DVD.

“During these times parents want to remember something positive to share with their family now more than ever,” says Tom Delaney, senior vice president of marketing for Jakks’ Play Along division. Classic toys “bring parents and grandparents back to their childhood memories of a simpler time,” he said.

That’s why Elizabeth Peterson, 39, from Redondo Beach, Calif., bought an Easy-Bake Oven — first introduced in the 1960s — for the holidays. The mother of a 2 1/2-year-old boy and a 10-month old boy admits she might be jumping the gun a bit, but couldn’t resist.

“I never got one when I was little and all my friends had one,” she said. “I’m probably going to be the one playing with it.”

She also bought two Nerf footballs, which she remembers playing with as a child.

“I think they’ll grow with them. People are maybe focusing on a smaller Christmas and buying one or two things that they known are a sure bet.”

With the football, she says, “It won’t just make it through the week of Christmas, they’ll play with it for years to come.”

Copyright 2008 The Associated Press.

Thankful

Monday, November 24th, 2008

Tonight our neighbor stopped by. He gave me a card and we chatted a little. He didn’t say much about the card, only “you’ll know how we feel when you read it.” Then he said Merry Christmas and Happy Thanksgiving and he left. For a moment I thought maybe we did something to tick the neighbors off and they wrote us a note about it. I was shocked when I opened the card. Our next door neighbors, along with another neighbor and some family members decided to help someone out this Christmas and that someone was us. Last month our daughter had to go to Minneapolis for emergency surgery and they wanted to help with expenses. Inside the card was some money. I would have went right over to their house upon reading this, but I was close to tears. We had to use money that we had set aside for Christmas while we were in Minneapolis so I have been really worried about the holidays. This will help so much. We still won’t be spending as much as we normally would, but now I don’t have to worry how I’ll get the few things I wanted to get the boys. We will be able to pay bills on time and have a Merry Christmas. I have a lot to be thankful for this Thanksgiving and my neighbors are one of them.

Yummy!

Monday, November 24th, 2008

After school today we had to stop by the grocery store to pick up some milk. I hate going into a store with all three kids for just one item. Although in this case not getting milk would have been worse because there wasn’t a drop left in the house. When we got near the milk case, the boys saw that there were samples being given out so we had to stop. They were sampling some milk that is made in Sterling. We tried the chocolate milk. When Cordelia saw everyone else had something she wanted one too so I gave her a sip of mine. When I let her sip from my water glass at home she just takes little sips. When she got a sip of that chocolate milk she wouldn’t stop. She put her face as far as she could into the cup. She had a big milk mustache and it was all over her new jacket. We did buy some of the chocolate milk. It was really good plus I like to support those small businesses.

Student debt grows; Financial aid application rates rise

Monday, November 24th, 2008

By McClatchy Newspapers

WASHINGTON — Already-high student loan rates are going to go up even more because of the bad economy, according to the Project on Student Debt, a group focused on cost-effective education.

“Student debt was a big burden even before this economic downturn,” said Edie Irons, communications director for The Project on Student Debt. “With unemployment on the rise … and wages not keeping up with the costs, it’s certainly going to be that much harder for students graduating now to stay afloat.”

 

In total dollars, student loans were up 17 percent over last year. Nationally, almost 1.3 million more FASFA’s were submitted, according to the Information for Financial Aid Professionals Library, a government organization.

The nation’s credit crunch will likely cause another increase. One-third of parents are slowing college savings because of declining home values and rising unemployment, leaving students with less money, according to a survey by TD Ameritrade Holding Corp., an investment firm.

The United States is losing 200,000 jobs per month, according to Jared Bernstein, an economist at the Economic Policy Institute. Graduates of all degree levels will be 8 percent less likely to be hired compared to last year, according to a study by the Collegiate Employment Research Institute at Michigan University.

With money tight, students are relying on private and federal loans to get them through school, but fear graduation and paying off their debt.

Yael Hartmann, 31, from Bethesda, Md., took out a $60,000 loan for Columbia University’s School of International Public Affairs, a master’s program.

“I’m worried I’m not going to be able to take a loan out next year because of the financial situation,” she said. “Even if I do, my interest rates will go up.”

 

But getting a second loan is just the start of her worries. After graduation, she hopes to get a job at the World Bank.

“It’s competitive, especially in my market … there have been a lot of layoffs,” Hartmann said. “I think it’s almost better to be in school right now, you can at least stay out of the job market and hope it will get better when you get out. I’m banking on that.”

Nina Wu, a third-year student at the University of Maryland Law School in Baltimore, estimates she will have $84,000 of debt by graduation. She wants to work in public juvenile law.

“It will require a lot of sacrifices,” she said. “The extreme of it is I might have to move in with my parents.”

Wu said her classmates are giving up dream jobs in public service for jobs that pay more. For example, her roommate turned down a family law job because the $37,000 salary wouldn’t cover her debt and cost of living.

“Student debt is a deterrent to people taking important, but low-paying, jobs,” said Irons. “College is supposed to open doors and expand opportunities for young people to follow their dreams.”

In 2007, Maryland had 55 percent of graduates facing an average debt of $17,243, according to a study by The Project on Student Debt, a group looking at cost-effective education.

Nationally, in 2007, 60 percent of graduates had debt averaging $22,700, according to the College Board.

While 6 percent more students were in debt in 2007, starting salaries rose only 3 percent, according to the Project on Student Debt. Its report also said debt is rising faster than tuition.

The biggest problem is private loans, which have uncapped interest rates and rigid repayment plans.

“Private loans are a terrible tool for promoting college access,” said Stephen Burd, a senior fellow at the New America Foundation, a group dedicated to fixing challenges for the next generation.

Federal loans are capped so “borrowers can only get into so much debt,” Burd said. But private loans aren’t guaranteed by the government and have fewer protections.

Universities often add private loans automatically to aid plans to cover unmet need, Irons said. Meanwhile, crushed by debt, graduates may face a harsh reality of bad credit reports and lower wages.

“There have been studies showing people with heavy loads of student debt are buying homes less, people are going to grad school less … they put off having families,” Burd said.

The credit crunch may provide a silver lining to financial aid. Students will have to choose affordable schools, and colleges may reconsider raising tuition.

“Colleges are being forced to help students afford to attend,” Burd said. “If colleges are serious about helping these students, they should shift money they currently spend on merit aid to need-based financial aid so that students who truly need help get it.”

TV can be good for you

Monday, November 24th, 2008

CHICAGO — Parents, you can keep those flash cards and alphabet books.

But there’s another device in your home that can help develop language and visual skills. It’s called — hold on to your remotes — the television set.

Instead of being simply society’s whipping boy and the root of all cultural evil, the so-called “idiot box” might actually boost test scores, especially in disadvantaged homes, a recently published study out of the University of Chicago says.

Even as it baby-sits electronically, the TV can be teaching both modes of learning and facts, other studies suggest, and keeping those who watch it from engaging in more destructive behaviors.

That’s the good news about the boob tube. There’s certainly bad, including the warning that “there’s no two-dimensional screen that can equal a three-dimensional caregiver,” says Dr. Donald Shifrin, the American Academy of Pediatrics spokesman on the impact of media on children. Then there’s the study showing kids who watch more TV do less reading.

But we’ll get to the numerous caveats — especially the one about “Desperate Housewives” being less helpful than “Sesame Street” — later.

For now, let’s deal with what many may find surprising.

The prevailing, almost unquestioning cultural bias against TV, especially among the upper-middle class, is nailed by the humor blog Stuff White People Like, which puts “Not having a TV” at No. 28 on the list.

“The No. 1 reason why white people like not having a TV is so that they can tell you that they don’t have a TV,” the authors write. But there is an academic consensus, if not a popular-culture one, that TV may actually be useful as more than just a means for frazzled parents to buy a few moments of uninterrupted time or wind down mindlessly at day’s end.

“I used to laugh and say, ‘I did 25 years of research on children in television, and I can summarize it in one sentence: It’s the content that matters,’” says Aletha Huston, a professor of child development at the University of Texas.

“If used correctly, television can be a wonderful medium for kids. It can be a way of exposing them to the world. It can be a resource for kids to get to places and times they wouldn’t get to,” says Huston.

Yet, “it is a message that doesn’t get out there somehow,” she says, citing the surprisingly intense interest when “we published a study a few years ago showing the positive effects of ‘Sesame Street’ on early schoolkids’ performance.”

The Chicago study came out of the Graduate School of Business, where young economists have been looking at media and its effects. Although based on an old data set, it offers new confirmation of the evolving views of television.

Standardized testing of almost 350,000 6th, 9th and 12th-grade students showed that the students who had more exposure to television in early childhood did slightly better on the tests than those with less exposure.

“We find strong evidence against the view that childhood television viewing harms the cognitive or educational development of preschoolers,” write Jesse Shapiro and Matthew Gentzkow in the paper, published this year in the Quarterly Journal of Economics.

There’s a big caveat: The testing data are from 1965, because those kids had been around when television rolled out from city to city in the U.S., providing what essentially hasn’t been seen in the United States since, a large-scale, clear-cut, before-and-after comparison.

“It’s an open question how the ways in which television is different now than then would affect the data,” says Shapiro, an assistant professor of economics at the business school.

But even with more recent data, another University of Chicago economist, reached a similar conclusion to that of Shapiro and Gentzkow.

“Despite the conventional wisdom, watching television apparently does not turn a child’s brain to mush,” wrote Steven Levitt, with co-author Stephen Dubner, in the 2005 hit book “Freakonomics.”

They looked at a huge early-childhood study conducted by the U.S. Department of Education in the 1990s and found “no correlation,” they wrote, “between a child’s test scores and the amount of television he watches.”

One of the big questions for economists is not just examining an activity in isolation but considering what activity it replaces.

Psychological research shows that violence in media increases aggression, for example. But “violent crime decreases on days with larger theater audiences for violent movies,” another recent study of media effects found. The implication: However aggressive you may feel, you can’t do the crime if you don’t have the time.

Violent movies aren’t the same as children’s afternoon television shows. But Shapiro and Gentzkow also found that much of the impact of the medium they were studying seemed to be related to what activities it might be replacing.

In their findings, even after controlling for parental income and education levels, TV’s “effects are more positive for children from less advantaged families or from families where English isn’t the first language,” Shapiro says.

Put another way, that translates into a whopper of a caveat: “For children with highly educated parents and rich home environments, the cognitive effects of television appear to be smaller and may even be negative,” they write.

In other words: TV as a surrogate parent is not equal to Scrabble with an English-lit-major mom.

The common wisdom is that TV has been in decline for decades, but many critics share the view of another popular book, “Everything Bad Is Good for You.” In it, author Steven Berlin Johnson contends that TV now is actually much better, “more complex and nuanced,” than it was at the time of Shapiro’s study.

“The most debased forms of mass diversion — video games and violent television dramas and juvenile sitcoms — turn out to be nutritional after all,” Johnson writes, largely because the storytelling and complexity of action demands much more of the viewer.

He’s looking at adult TV, comparing the intricate “The Sopranos” to the simple “Starsky & Hutch,” for instance, but the argument can also be made for children’s television, where the straight-ahead action-hero cartoon story has been replaced by the subtle social interactions and multiple layers of meaning in “SpongeBob SquarePants.”

Patricia Greenfield has looked at more contemporary data, too, and concluded television is a mixed educational blessing. It’s likely responsible for a rise in verbal IQ scores, while it may be to blame for declines in verbal SAT scores.

“The real strength of television in teaching vocabulary is the visual context for teaching definitions,” says Greenfield, director of the Children’s Digital Media Center at UCLA and California State University at Los Angeles. That applies to IQ tests, which use “everyday vocabulary,” she says. Meanwhile, SATs look for “Latin-based, literary vocabulary,” which TV, by and large, does not offer.

Her 1998 paper, “The Cultural Evolution of IQ,” also makes the case for television’s helping to teach “visual intelligence,” the reading of signs, symbols, images so vital in today’s culture.

With television and DVDs being used widely in schools and by parents, her reading is that anti-TV forces may actually be “in decline,” to the point that “I’m a little bit more concerned about people not understanding the costs, only looking at the benefits.”

That’s certainly a worry of the American Academy of Pediatrics, which recommends no screen time for children under age 2 and a maximum of two well-chosen hours per day for older kids.

The concern is not TV per se so much as what TV, especially relevant with one study showing nearly 40 percent of children age 6 and younger have TVs in their bedrooms.

“Are we viewing ‘Elimidate’?” the academy’s Shifrin asks. “Or are we viewing ‘Dora the Explorer’?”

The doctors group understands that youngsters are growing up “as digital natives,” he adds. “We want parents to understand it’s up to them to be literate enough to know what’s being taught” on the screens.

He recommends the Web site Common Sense Media (commonsensemedia.org) as a good way for parents to achieve such literacy.

“We are not going to censor television_we’d like to censure it at times_but what we are going to say is, ‘Caveat emptor,’ ” Shifrin says. “It’s about what you watch, how much you watch and where it’s watched.”

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Finish any good parenting books lately? We didn’t think so

Friday, November 21st, 2008

Next time you’re invited to a baby shower, may we suggest a gift idea that few moms think to regis-ter for: a boatload of bookmarks.

Post-it Notes would even work.

Something, anything, to mark the pages of the many, many parenting books she will earnestly crack open, read to Page 11, and then never lay eyes on again.

Pam McLaughlin, a Larkspur, Calif., mom of three, knows that experience firsthand. But instead of buying bookmarks, she founded ParentsDigest.com, a new service that writes Cliffs Notes-like versions of parenting manuals and e-mails them to subscribers.

“Our goal is to be experts in parenting so no matter how old your kid is, you’re getting information every step of the way,” says Kira Swain, editor in chief of Parents Digest.

Here’s how it works: McLaughlin and her small team of professional writers (mostly moms) read classic and newly published parenting books in every category imaginable: special-needs kids, greening your family, temper tantrums, eating disorders, divorce, bullying, etc. Then they write eight-page summaries, which cover the book’s nuts and bolts.

“You can sit down with a cup of coffee and 20 or 30 minutes and get really good information,” says Swain. “You get the problem-solving information, the statistics and the factual information and see, ‘Here’s a solution for what my kid is going through or what I’m going through.’” Of course, if you’re left wanting more upon completing the summary, you can always buy the book to read at your, ahem, leisure. You can purchase the books from the site’s catalog right at ParentsDigest.com, often at a subscriber discount.

Subscribers receive two summaries per month, which they can choose from the constantly updated list of new summaries or the Par-ents Digest catalog, which currently contains about 150 titles. A three-month trial subscription costs $19.45 and a one-year subscription costs $68.

On the site, McLaughlin writes: “My hope is that our summaries will enrich your family, lighten your load, or simply put a smile on your face.”

OK, maybe that’s better than the bookmark idea.